About Lou

“I want to facilitate self-advocacy for the neurodivergent community.”

When my youngest son was diagnosed with ADHD in 2016, I came to realise that there’s a whole community of young neurodivergent people that I didn’t even realise existed before that time. I was one of the many parents entering a different world, a new and neurodivergent territory that I didn’t understand.

I used to think that these differences needed to be fixed, that the people representing “square pegs” should be treated and manipulated and made to fit the round holes around them.  I was wrong.  I have learned that to try and make those people change or be fixed, is to send them the message that there is something wrong with them and I soon learned that is simply not true.  My own children have taught me that their differently wired brains are beautiful, unique and that they are rich with a perspective that shines their light so bright.


Through parent advocacy, reading, learning and being with neurodivergent people, I have come to learn that the poor outcomes experienced by so many in the neurodivergent community must be addressed.  People can and should come together to embrace difference, include neurodivergent people in our schools, our communities and workplaces.  

In March 2024, Square Peg Round Whole became a not-for-profit organisation in Western Australian under the entity name Louise Kuchel Advocacy for Inclusion, Inc.

What I hope to achieve...

I want to be a part of the change; through relationships I have with experts, academics, teachers and people with lived experiences of neurodiversity.

I want to facilitate the community to access the support, encourage self-advocacy and stand up for the rights of the neurodivergent.

I want to use the podcast as one avenue to provide this service however through patreon membership, the community can access further benefits.

My favourite moments so far...

Lou meeting up with ADHD parent advocates, Lou Brown, Rimmelle Freedman and Doris Hopkins at one of Lou Brown's parent workshops in 2018.
Lou meeting up with ADHD parent advocates, Lou Brown, Rimmelle Freedman and Doris Hopkins at one of Lou Brown's parent workshops in 2018.
PAAA representatives Lou Kuchel, Doris Hopkins and Rimmelle Freedman met NSW Greens Abigail Boyd and David Shoebridge to discuss experiences of students with ADHD in NSW schools.
PAAA representatives Lou Kuchel, Doris Hopkins and Rimmelle Freedman met NSW Greens Abigail Boyd and David Shoebridge to discuss experiences of students with ADHD in NSW schools.
Spontaneous TV news interview with journalist, Sarah Nevin outside NSW Parliament House.
Spontaneous TV news interview with journalist, Sarah Nevin outside NSW Parliament House.
PAAA representatives Lou Kuchel and Doris Hopkins preparing the PAAA survey report.
PAAA representatives Lou Kuchel and Doris Hopkins preparing the PAAA survey report.
Lou asked a question about the impact of school exclusions for neurodivergent students on national television.
Lou asked a question about the impact of school exclusions for neurodivergent students on national television.
PAAA representatives Lou Kuchel and Doris Hopkins visited Education Minister, Sarah Mitchell's office and spoke to key advisors about the results from the PAAA parent survey and socio-economic impacts of poorly supported ADHD in the community. This meeting led to PAAA's regular input to the development of the NSW Behaviour Strategy.
PAAA representatives Lou Kuchel and Doris Hopkins visited Education Minister, Sarah Mitchell's office and spoke to key advisors about the results from the PAAA parent survey and socio-economic impacts of poorly supported ADHD in the community. This meeting led to PAAA's regular input to the development of the NSW Behaviour Strategy.
Front page of The Sydney Morning Herald in an article about growing home schooling figures.
Front page of The Sydney Morning Herald in an article about growing home schooling figures.
Holding the 2018 PAAA survey that we used to get media and political attention for the plight of ADHD students in Australian schools
Holding the 2018 PAAA survey that we used to get media and political attention for the plight of ADHD students in Australian schools
Interview on The Project TV current affairs programme with Lisa Wilkinson Nov 2020
Interview on The Project TV current affairs programme with Lisa Wilkinson Nov 2020